Sometime in our life we all have had that special angel that lifted us up with their wings when ours would not fly. I know I have had many angels to help me throughout my life. It may be just a phone call at the right time, something someone said, or a feeling that someone is with you.
Whatever it is we all have had these times.
I would like your stories for a new book project.
Please send me any inspirational stories you have.
If selected for the book project you could be compensated for your information in the way of a donation to your selected charity.
All proceeds from this book will be donated to charity.
Please submit your story here.
Thanks for your support and encouragement.
Jeff
The Ten to One Rule of Communication
Communication is PERSONAL.
It has to be, it can be no other way.
When we communicate to anyone it is always either about us, or about them.
Try this experiment for a few days and see if it doesn't give you a new awareness to life, your problems, and the problems of others.
Listen to ten words for every one word you speak.
You don't need to actually count the words out, but become aware of your actions to speak more than you listen.
We all do it. Let's face it. Our life is about us, and we want to tell everyone about it. Avoid this.
Most people feel the same way, they may show some concern for what you are telling them but remember your life is about you, and they feel the same way about their life.
It is about them and they want to tell you about it.
When you listen more than you speak you become the world's greatest listener, confidante, and friend.
What a way to live. The feelings you will receive from being that special person to others will far out weigh whatever you wanted to share with them. Surprisingly enough there will come a point in the relationship that they will be there for you in a stronger way than before just because of you willingness to listen to them.
The Ten to One Rule of Communication.
Try it.
It has to be, it can be no other way.
When we communicate to anyone it is always either about us, or about them.
Try this experiment for a few days and see if it doesn't give you a new awareness to life, your problems, and the problems of others.
Listen to ten words for every one word you speak.
You don't need to actually count the words out, but become aware of your actions to speak more than you listen.
We all do it. Let's face it. Our life is about us, and we want to tell everyone about it. Avoid this.
Most people feel the same way, they may show some concern for what you are telling them but remember your life is about you, and they feel the same way about their life.
It is about them and they want to tell you about it.
When you listen more than you speak you become the world's greatest listener, confidante, and friend.
What a way to live. The feelings you will receive from being that special person to others will far out weigh whatever you wanted to share with them. Surprisingly enough there will come a point in the relationship that they will be there for you in a stronger way than before just because of you willingness to listen to them.
The Ten to One Rule of Communication.
Try it.
A Note From a Friend
I received this today from my friend Karim Hajee and thought you would enjoy.
Every one of us has had somebody who made an impact in our lives.
It could be a teacher, friend, parent, or sibling - somebody who really made a positive impact and helped you at some point.
That person made an impact just because they cared or wanted to help. They really didn't expect anything in return.
Now it's your turn to make an impact.
Why?
Because when you give, when you make a difference, when you make a positive impact on at least one person's life - you will attract positive situations, positive people and more positive opportunities that will allow you to create the life you want.
Because you attract what you are and you attract what you give.
So the next time you run into an old friend or come across somebody who may need a hand - take the time to have a positive impact, give from your heart - knowing you will be helping somebody else and creating positive situations in your life.
Start making an impact today.
Be the person who makes a difference in people's lives.
Make an Impact.
Everyday you come across who could help you in some small or large way.
But how often do you make an impact on somebodies life - with the intention of making an impact?
You're probably like most people - just trying to get through the day and not really paying attention to the people that cross your path. Yet everyday you have an opportunity to do something significant -to help somebody you know or don't know - only because it's what we as human beings should be doing everyday.
By making a positive impact - you automatically create positive energy and good things happen to those with positive energy.
Why?
When you generate positive energy you attract more positive situations into your life. It's like being a magnet for positive things.
But there is a catch - you have to do this because you truly want to help someone in some small or large way.
You can't do it because you want to attract positive situations into your life - that will naturally happen.
You have to do it because you want to and because you feel it is what you should do.
I know some of you may say: "Karim, I've been helping people for years - but I don't see anyone helping me. Why should I bother now?"
It's not about people helping you - it's about you making a positive impact.
If you truly feel that you have been helping people, making an impact and you haven't been attracting positive situations, or positive events, or positive people into our life - then take a closer look at your intentions.
Do you really do things to help other people simply because you wanted to - or did you expect something in return?
Next - take a look at the opportunities that came your way - did you follow up on them?
Did you examine the opportunities that came your way or did you dismiss them - thinking that they weren't for you?
Take a look at the people that you've met - did you develop friendships, follow up with them or did you ignore them, dismiss them, and assume that they weren't the kind of people that you would help you?
Often we dismiss events, opportunities and people thinking we know better, or that we know what is going to unfold.
The truth is - we don't.
You don't have to make a big impact. Make a small impact and build from there.You don't have to give somebody money - especially if you can't afford it. Give your time, your understanding, your knowledge.
Give somebody a hand with their shopping bags.Open a door for somebody who has their hands full. Listen to your son/daughter the next time they talk to you. Take a moment to smile before getting angry (you probably won't get angry if you tried this). Give some of your time - you don't have to give money.
Share your time. Share your wisdom.
Be pleasant to a stranger. Offer some kind words to a colleague or family member. Make a positive impact by committing to help somebody everyday. Force yourself to look for the positive aspect of every situation.
Instruct your subconscious mind to help you meet the people and attract the situations that lead to success. Create a positive mindset and that will attract more positive situations into your life.
Getting Results
By doing what I suggest - you'll immediately start to feel better about your life and your situation.
Then you'll begin to see new opportunities come your way. You'll meet new people and go to new events. Pay attention to them - they'll help you improve your life. Don't assume that you know whether they will or won't work for you- because you don't.
Everything you come across and every person you meet can help you -but only if you are open minded and willing to explore the opportunity.
Focus on making the right decisions. Get your subconscious mind to help you attract the right situations and people that can help you improve your life. You can do this by not worrying about making the wrong decision. Instead, constantly think of making only the right decisions. Tell yourself that you are making the right choices.
Be Consistent
You have to be consistent - and that means continuing to make an impact, continuing to help and make a difference everyday no matter what mood you are in - force yourself if you have to - so that you make a positive impact in some way - everyday!
Make a commitment to make an impact everyday throughout your life.
Try it for a full year and see how your life changes or improves.
When you make an impact regularly - you will continually attract the people, situations and events that will help you achieve your goals and live the life you want.
Make an impact. Make a difference.Give something that will help somebody you know or don't know.
Do this from your heart - with no expectations.
As soon as you start you'll get your subconscious mind working on bringing you the people and events that will help you live the life you want.
Look for the positive in every situation.Change the way you see things - consider everything an opportunity.Consider everybody you meet as a chance for you to help them. Start creating the life you want today - visit:http://www.creatingpower.com/news.htm
Karim Hajee
Every one of us has had somebody who made an impact in our lives.
It could be a teacher, friend, parent, or sibling - somebody who really made a positive impact and helped you at some point.
That person made an impact just because they cared or wanted to help. They really didn't expect anything in return.
Now it's your turn to make an impact.
Why?
Because when you give, when you make a difference, when you make a positive impact on at least one person's life - you will attract positive situations, positive people and more positive opportunities that will allow you to create the life you want.
Because you attract what you are and you attract what you give.
So the next time you run into an old friend or come across somebody who may need a hand - take the time to have a positive impact, give from your heart - knowing you will be helping somebody else and creating positive situations in your life.
Start making an impact today.
Be the person who makes a difference in people's lives.
Make an Impact.
Everyday you come across who could help you in some small or large way.
But how often do you make an impact on somebodies life - with the intention of making an impact?
You're probably like most people - just trying to get through the day and not really paying attention to the people that cross your path. Yet everyday you have an opportunity to do something significant -to help somebody you know or don't know - only because it's what we as human beings should be doing everyday.
By making a positive impact - you automatically create positive energy and good things happen to those with positive energy.
Why?
When you generate positive energy you attract more positive situations into your life. It's like being a magnet for positive things.
But there is a catch - you have to do this because you truly want to help someone in some small or large way.
You can't do it because you want to attract positive situations into your life - that will naturally happen.
You have to do it because you want to and because you feel it is what you should do.
I know some of you may say: "Karim, I've been helping people for years - but I don't see anyone helping me. Why should I bother now?"
It's not about people helping you - it's about you making a positive impact.
If you truly feel that you have been helping people, making an impact and you haven't been attracting positive situations, or positive events, or positive people into our life - then take a closer look at your intentions.
Do you really do things to help other people simply because you wanted to - or did you expect something in return?
Next - take a look at the opportunities that came your way - did you follow up on them?
Did you examine the opportunities that came your way or did you dismiss them - thinking that they weren't for you?
Take a look at the people that you've met - did you develop friendships, follow up with them or did you ignore them, dismiss them, and assume that they weren't the kind of people that you would help you?
Often we dismiss events, opportunities and people thinking we know better, or that we know what is going to unfold.
The truth is - we don't.
You don't have to make a big impact. Make a small impact and build from there.You don't have to give somebody money - especially if you can't afford it. Give your time, your understanding, your knowledge.
Give somebody a hand with their shopping bags.Open a door for somebody who has their hands full. Listen to your son/daughter the next time they talk to you. Take a moment to smile before getting angry (you probably won't get angry if you tried this). Give some of your time - you don't have to give money.
Share your time. Share your wisdom.
Be pleasant to a stranger. Offer some kind words to a colleague or family member. Make a positive impact by committing to help somebody everyday. Force yourself to look for the positive aspect of every situation.
Instruct your subconscious mind to help you meet the people and attract the situations that lead to success. Create a positive mindset and that will attract more positive situations into your life.
Getting Results
By doing what I suggest - you'll immediately start to feel better about your life and your situation.
Then you'll begin to see new opportunities come your way. You'll meet new people and go to new events. Pay attention to them - they'll help you improve your life. Don't assume that you know whether they will or won't work for you- because you don't.
Everything you come across and every person you meet can help you -but only if you are open minded and willing to explore the opportunity.
Focus on making the right decisions. Get your subconscious mind to help you attract the right situations and people that can help you improve your life. You can do this by not worrying about making the wrong decision. Instead, constantly think of making only the right decisions. Tell yourself that you are making the right choices.
Be Consistent
You have to be consistent - and that means continuing to make an impact, continuing to help and make a difference everyday no matter what mood you are in - force yourself if you have to - so that you make a positive impact in some way - everyday!
Make a commitment to make an impact everyday throughout your life.
Try it for a full year and see how your life changes or improves.
When you make an impact regularly - you will continually attract the people, situations and events that will help you achieve your goals and live the life you want.
Make an impact. Make a difference.Give something that will help somebody you know or don't know.
Do this from your heart - with no expectations.
As soon as you start you'll get your subconscious mind working on bringing you the people and events that will help you live the life you want.
Look for the positive in every situation.Change the way you see things - consider everything an opportunity.Consider everybody you meet as a chance for you to help them. Start creating the life you want today - visit:http://www.creatingpower.com/news.htm
Karim Hajee
The Greatest Gift by Dr. Shoshanna
*** Article: The Greatest Gift -- What Is It? - By Dr. Brenda Shoshanna ***
The greatest gift we can give one another in a relationship is our true selves -- being who we are.
For some this is not difficult, but for most it takes practice to take off the masks and become real. At first it can seem frightening to stop playing games, and just be. However, much of the trouble that arises in relationships is because we are unwilling to do this. We think the games we play protect us, though they are actually the cause of the problems we have. Our need for real contact is so strong that when it is not there, our partner can easily feel lonely, rejected, or as though they don't matter much.
There are all kinds of ways we keep the games going. Instead of finding out who our partner truly is, or what they really need from us, when something happens we don't like, we rush to label them. They become an object to us, a stranger, or opponent in some way. Before we give them a chance to reveal themselves, we throw them away. In this way, we constantly separate ourselves from one another and then wonder why we feel so alone.
The biggest need we all have is to stop playing games, trust who we are, and realize that each person who comes into our lives is there for a reason; they are worth knowing truly. We must learn to build bridges between ourselves and them; allow open communication to take place.
When we are unwilling to do this, it is usually because we are hiding, afraid of being known.How to Let Go of the Games We PlayTo start on our journey of becoming real, it is useful to look closely at the roles we play -- the fantasies we so cherish. These roles are often exactly what get in our way. Roles can be hypnotic; it is easy to fall in love with a role or fantasy and begin to believe it is who we truly are. Or, more commonly, we fall in love with the role someone else is playing, become mesmerized by it, and have no idea at all who the real person is. When that happens, we are not falling in love with the person but with the fantasy they are creating for us.
It can and does come as quite a shock when things change, and one day, we find out who they truly are. At this point, many relationships get rocky. There are many reasons it may feel dangerous to let go of a role or image. For some, the idea of being true has become confused with the idea of being selfish, not caring about the feelings of others. Oddly enough, just the opposite is so. When we are able to respond truthfully, real caring can begin to arise.
On the other hand, when we act from our roles and games, we are implicitly demanding this kind of false response from others. This way of relating is deadening, and takes the enthusiasm, fun, and aliveness away. Everything becomes predictable. Boredom sets in.The biggest danger of being lost in a role is that we lose touch with the reality of who we really are and what's going on, both for ourselves and others. An incredible amount of misunderstanding comes about when we are glued to a particular fantasy or role.
Unglue yourself a little.
In order to unglue ourselves from the usual roles we play, it is helpful to step into another's shoes. Try seeing the situation from your partner's point of view. Pretend you are them for a few moments. What would you need or want if that were true? Look at yourself through their eyes. You may be in for quite a surprise. As our compassion for and understanding of others increases, our stereotyped reactions melt away.
We constantly need to broaden our horizons.
No relationship can stay the same forever.
If it does grow, it begins to fade. If we do not expand, we begin to atrophy as well. As we become real and respond from the truth of who we are, a sense of fresh possibilities, flexibility, and aliveness comes to us. It brings excitement and adventure as well.
This is a surefire way to bring the greatest gift, both to others and to ourselves.
Cc/author/2007 About the Author:Discover the surprising truths about love that will save your relationship, in Dr. Shoshanna's top e-book "Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships)" -- http://www.truthaboutlove.com. Psychologist, relationship expert, speaker, and noted author has helped thousands become stable, strong, and fulfilled. Get free ezine and reports at http://www.brendashoshanna.com. Contact at: topspeaker@yahoo.com
The greatest gift we can give one another in a relationship is our true selves -- being who we are.
For some this is not difficult, but for most it takes practice to take off the masks and become real. At first it can seem frightening to stop playing games, and just be. However, much of the trouble that arises in relationships is because we are unwilling to do this. We think the games we play protect us, though they are actually the cause of the problems we have. Our need for real contact is so strong that when it is not there, our partner can easily feel lonely, rejected, or as though they don't matter much.
There are all kinds of ways we keep the games going. Instead of finding out who our partner truly is, or what they really need from us, when something happens we don't like, we rush to label them. They become an object to us, a stranger, or opponent in some way. Before we give them a chance to reveal themselves, we throw them away. In this way, we constantly separate ourselves from one another and then wonder why we feel so alone.
The biggest need we all have is to stop playing games, trust who we are, and realize that each person who comes into our lives is there for a reason; they are worth knowing truly. We must learn to build bridges between ourselves and them; allow open communication to take place.
When we are unwilling to do this, it is usually because we are hiding, afraid of being known.How to Let Go of the Games We PlayTo start on our journey of becoming real, it is useful to look closely at the roles we play -- the fantasies we so cherish. These roles are often exactly what get in our way. Roles can be hypnotic; it is easy to fall in love with a role or fantasy and begin to believe it is who we truly are. Or, more commonly, we fall in love with the role someone else is playing, become mesmerized by it, and have no idea at all who the real person is. When that happens, we are not falling in love with the person but with the fantasy they are creating for us.
It can and does come as quite a shock when things change, and one day, we find out who they truly are. At this point, many relationships get rocky. There are many reasons it may feel dangerous to let go of a role or image. For some, the idea of being true has become confused with the idea of being selfish, not caring about the feelings of others. Oddly enough, just the opposite is so. When we are able to respond truthfully, real caring can begin to arise.
On the other hand, when we act from our roles and games, we are implicitly demanding this kind of false response from others. This way of relating is deadening, and takes the enthusiasm, fun, and aliveness away. Everything becomes predictable. Boredom sets in.The biggest danger of being lost in a role is that we lose touch with the reality of who we really are and what's going on, both for ourselves and others. An incredible amount of misunderstanding comes about when we are glued to a particular fantasy or role.
Unglue yourself a little.
In order to unglue ourselves from the usual roles we play, it is helpful to step into another's shoes. Try seeing the situation from your partner's point of view. Pretend you are them for a few moments. What would you need or want if that were true? Look at yourself through their eyes. You may be in for quite a surprise. As our compassion for and understanding of others increases, our stereotyped reactions melt away.
We constantly need to broaden our horizons.
No relationship can stay the same forever.
If it does grow, it begins to fade. If we do not expand, we begin to atrophy as well. As we become real and respond from the truth of who we are, a sense of fresh possibilities, flexibility, and aliveness comes to us. It brings excitement and adventure as well.
This is a surefire way to bring the greatest gift, both to others and to ourselves.
Cc/author/2007 About the Author:Discover the surprising truths about love that will save your relationship, in Dr. Shoshanna's top e-book "Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships)" -- http://www.truthaboutlove.com. Psychologist, relationship expert, speaker, and noted author has helped thousands become stable, strong, and fulfilled. Get free ezine and reports at http://www.brendashoshanna.com. Contact at: topspeaker@yahoo.com
Your Relationship with Yourself
When was the last time you scheduled an appointment with yourself?
You know time to reflect on your life.
Your spend 24 hours a day, 7 days a week with the most important person in your life.
So when was the last time you had a heart to heart talk with you?
If your like most of us it has most likely been longer than you will admit.
Why do we avoid having the hard conversations?
What are we avoiding?
How much better would we be if we worked to develop an honest relationship with our self?
Ask yourself the hard questions.
Are you doing what your heart says you should be doing?
Is everything in your life exactly the way you want it to be?
Do you get the support and encouragement you need?
These and many other important questions are the ones we all never seem to find the time to discuss with our self.
Take control today, live the life you have imagined. Talk to yourself,
and then listen to what your heart is saying to you.
When was the last time you scheduled an appointment with yourself?
You know time to reflect on your life.
Your spend 24 hours a day, 7 days a week with the most important person in your life.
So when was the last time you had a heart to heart talk with you?
If your like most of us it has most likely been longer than you will admit.
Why do we avoid having the hard conversations?
What are we avoiding?
How much better would we be if we worked to develop an honest relationship with our self?
Ask yourself the hard questions.
Are you doing what your heart says you should be doing?
Is everything in your life exactly the way you want it to be?
Do you get the support and encouragement you need?
These and many other important questions are the ones we all never seem to find the time to discuss with our self.
Take control today, live the life you have imagined. Talk to yourself,
and then listen to what your heart is saying to you.
Only One Person?
You may be only one person in the world,
but you may also be the world to one person.
Makes you think.
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but you may also be the world to one person.
Makes you think.
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UN-STOPABLE
What does it mean to be UN-STOPABLE?
Does the word UN-STOPABLE form pictures in your mind of super hero's fighting for good?
Do you conjure up images of corporate executives running large companies?
Or, do you see normal everyday folks similar to ourselves, who set their mind to something. Commit to taking one small step toward their goal, and then another, and another.
That's UN-STOPABLE!
It has little to do with super hero's, successful executives, or professional athletes.
It is desire and passion.
The desire to have something, be something, or do something...worthwhile.
Then to start, just begin with one small step, and then another small step.
UN-STOPABLE means to keep advancing confidently toward your desired outcome.
Whether it be completing a 20 mile run, losing weight, advancing your career, or just simply cleaning out the garage. Whatever your desire, use the passion to be UN-STOPABLE.
I have written a complete article on this very subject, UN-STOPABLE.
If you would like a free copy let me know.
Email for your copy; jnis@wildblue.net
Does the word UN-STOPABLE form pictures in your mind of super hero's fighting for good?
Do you conjure up images of corporate executives running large companies?
Or, do you see normal everyday folks similar to ourselves, who set their mind to something. Commit to taking one small step toward their goal, and then another, and another.
That's UN-STOPABLE!
It has little to do with super hero's, successful executives, or professional athletes.
It is desire and passion.
The desire to have something, be something, or do something...worthwhile.
Then to start, just begin with one small step, and then another small step.
UN-STOPABLE means to keep advancing confidently toward your desired outcome.
Whether it be completing a 20 mile run, losing weight, advancing your career, or just simply cleaning out the garage. Whatever your desire, use the passion to be UN-STOPABLE.
I have written a complete article on this very subject, UN-STOPABLE.
If you would like a free copy let me know.
Email for your copy; jnis@wildblue.net
A True Inspiration Video
YOU MUST,
check out this YouTube Video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4B-r8KJhlE
We all have LOTS to be grateful for.
Appreciate life, share some LOVE, Enjoy.
This is it folks, make the best of it.
check out this YouTube Video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4B-r8KJhlE
We all have LOTS to be grateful for.
Appreciate life, share some LOVE, Enjoy.
This is it folks, make the best of it.
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